Cement wall? hardly, im more than open to a mature discussion :) .
My piercer never said, nor did i that blow outs are a good thing, merely that is better to stretch to your goal size before having them cut off.
Im guessing your annoyed at my comment saying that I believe that my blow outs have actually provided my lobes with extra strength; while i know this is not the case with 90% of people I can assure you(and check my posts of pictures ive provided) the blowouts have actually doubled my lobe size making them very very big --- while at the same time not thinning the real lobe.
I do agree i may be an exception to the rule and lucky but my piercer is a proffesional, he knows far more than most, fricken modblogged more times than i can count and is giving me good advice :) .
No hard feelings though, i care about my ears and i wish i had read more before causing my blowout via double flared jewelery, but taking over 1 and a half years to get to 22mm is hardly reckless.