Hello again all.
Thanks to everyone for the advice and assistance in my original post (http://forums.bodyartforms.com/forums/t/18375.aspx). I took my jewelry out and had a friend really examine my ears. She said the holes were not red at all and you could see clean through no problem. I think when I looked at my own ears at the angle I was using, I could only see an edge. She said they looked great and healed so I went ahead and stretched to 4g.
The stretch was great! It's been a couple of days now and everything looks good. No pain or bleeding or anything strange. I'm very happy with this gauge. I was thinking of eventually going up to 0g but honestly, I think this looks pretty good on me.
However, my ears smell. Now ... my ears have smelled before, I think when I first got them done. They smell similar now. Maybe it seems worse because it's a fresh stretch. There's no leakage or anything. I am cleaning and using salt soaks. Is this a normal thing? This smell? I think only I can smell it because it's my ears but ...
-E