so i got a vertical labret yesterday at 16g...
unfortunately it was slightly crooked (top was perfect, bottom was about 1mm-2mm off, enough to be annoying), and as it felt like being punched in the mouth (i think maybe this is because he went from the top down, i'd seen it done from the bottom up?), i didn't want to get it redone, so we decided i'd hold out until i got smaller jewelry to see if it'd be less noticeable.
the actual piercing made me freak out though -- it felt like blood was going everywhere. i could even taste it. as soon as he was done i asked about the bleeding, and there wasn't any.
psychosomatic, hooray.
then i go home, go to sleep, wake up, and show my mom.
she almost started crying, going "oh my poor baby!" of course i couldn't tell her that it actually did hurt....

my other piercings -- tongue and septum -- my mom just goes "eww, those looks gross." my ears she doesn't care about.
she didn't even want to look at me though.

and on top of that i have a chapstick addiction, and it was driving me CRAZY to not put chapstick on! (i dabbed cetaphil lotion around the edge of my lips, but i still couldn't rub my lips and that made me sad).
also, it was a bit too noticeable for my tastes.
i like subtle piercings...should've gone with a pyrex bar, meh.
so...
less than 12 hours of getting it done, i took it out.

i didn't want there to be scar tissue or problems if i got it redone (with a pyrex retainer, if i do, ugh, that kind of sucked), and, well, what i REALLY wanted was a labret but i was so worried about gum recession.
now i'm considering either
(a) vertical labret again with pyrex bar
or
(b) normal labret with an IS bar with a 3mm back, or a ptfe labret.
thoughts?
i know it's super long.
sorry