Keep in mind its pretty hard to see both lobes at once unless you're kinda far away from someone, so it's quite hard to notice slightly misplaced piercings on other people in person. Also, people rarely have identical pairs of ears, for example my right ear is just a little smaller than my left...
Since your lobes are only 3 months old, they may close up completely if you left jewelry out... If they did, you could get them repierced with placement you're happier with, and even at a bigger size to start with. If you get pierced at 10g or even 8g, it could even save you time over just stretching your current piercings!
I do hear ya on the whole perfectionist worrying about placement tho, my left is ever sl slightly lower than my right. There is a way to fix it without getting repierced tho, and that's getting scalpeled... but that certainly isn't for everyone lol (but would make stretching to your goal size faster too)
2g lobes, 2g conches, 6g septum, 8g labret, 12g left tragus, 14g right tragus, 14g right eyebrow, 10g 'halfadravya'
One day: 1/2" lobes, 0g conches, 12g right tragus... maybe more
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