my lobes are happiest when i wear stone, glass, or Ti (or steel by Anatometal). they do well with KAOS silicone jewelry, esp. parylene coated earskins. my lobes are deathly sensitive/allergic to acrylic and cheap steel so i avoid both like the plague.
iam/bme: kitten
14 mm lobes (going bigger), 6ga. 2nd lobes, 14ga. clavicle surface piercings (retired after 2.5yrs), sakura scar project (1/2 done). g= grams, ga=gauge.