ill try to ignore the -issues- youve raised later, and try to respond to the initial query...
if your left ear is different than your right ear, significantly, then my guess is that you DO something different... prolly cell phone, is my guess... think about what you do each day that might be significantly different across sides - long hair that is parted differently? sleeping on one side? theres all kinds of things thatre possible...
to be fair, hardly ANYones ears are perfectly symmetrical - which is readily apparent once you start to examine closely... so, if you can come up with some things that might be doable to -even-out- your situation it might help... also, you can now start to call the left ear - your -bitch-ear-... whereas your right is feeling healed and ready to do things (it is NOT, btw, you really should wait the minimum times which means at -least- another week [edit: -month-, not week, i thought OP said 3 wks since stretch] or two) - if you want to stay symmetrical, then you will ALWAYS be waiting for your -bitch-ear- to catch up and become ready... as tempting as it might seem to rush ahead based upon the better-ear, the truth is that you really should just wait until both are ready... your lobes will be much happier campers the longer you can wait...
i feel like an ancient-dude, but i keep seeing yoda cross-legged and just waiting while luke is brashing-about the swamp... lol
exactly 8.25250000001mm (0g) ear lobes only... so far...
HII method: harold is insane... make sure to read everything i say and follow the most-insane ideas. if youre lucky - you can be insane too. 8-)
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