Go see Rick at Industrial Primitives

He can look at your lobes and tell you whats up :) 

Oh, he'll def be who I go to.

 Rick will take care of you. I'd recommend downsizing and getting cut in small incriments, maybe 1-2 mm at a time until you are satisified with placement if you don't want to go too huge. 

I love how stretchy my ears are, sometimes its annoying like when I can't even wear sf jewelry anymore or it falls out, but not having to deal with o-rings is nice :)

Yeah, I'd pay for stretchy ears right now, so I can get these damn DFs I ordered in my freakin ears.  Waste of money.  :(

Also, the massage to downsize thing, I believe I've suggested massages before. Massaging helps to increase blood circulation, which in turn helps with regeneration some, as far as I know. From experience, my ears continue to shrink with massages if I don't wear any jewelry in it at all. Again, not everyone might react the same, but those are just my experiences. :)

 for those who have scalpeled lobes, what was the healing process like? how long does it normally take? does the method of scalpeling or amount of tissue removed effect the healing time?

 I had fairly quick healing time i think.   After 21 days I was wearing horn jewelry and after a month I was wearing wood.  I had 2 piercings that were scalpeled together and my initial jewelry was possibly a little small.  I don't know if healing is different with different methods.

I got scapelled in both ears to a 2g. Mine healed quick and was not any problems at all. The only thing is that my left ear is slitty because of it, but my right ear is a perfect circle. My left ear always shrinks after a oil massage. =(

yup. im just gonna keep dumping pics from my session in all the scalpelling threads.

 Go to Rick! I got scalpelled by him. He is amazing.