rat: I only wear light stuff...of course, I'm only at 4g, so there's not much heavy jewelry this small. lol I usually wear acrylic or silicone, with the occassional stone plug. So, now I'm confused (What's new right?). People say to massage when you want to make your ears stretchy, then people say to stretch when you're downsizing. How does massaging make your ears stretchy AND downsize? I don't get it.
EDIT: Sorry, rat..I just read your post again, and you didn't saying about massaging. lol But I HAVE seen people say to massage when they want their ears to close up...
sundaisy: Yeah, that's what I'd do, if I need to be scalpelled. Should I try to stretch up to 2, then 0 on my own? Or just go to a piercer before I do anything? (I'm not planning on doing anything for atleast a few months. I've only been at 4g for just over 2 months.) I mean, I'd like to avoid scalpelling all together, but if it's needed to keep my earrings from touching my head, then it's what I'll do. I just, like I said, don't want it to end up stretching itself because I really don't want to go bigger than 00. My ears aren't very stretchy, though. I can't even get some DFs in.
This thread is turning out to be a lot more that I had planned. But I'm glad ya'll are being so helpful! Thanks again!
*Elizabeth.
Don't listen. Don't hear them. They're in this together.