Blood is blood, best thing to do for that would be sea salt soaks. It has worked wonders for my lobes. Secondly wait a little bit around a month or two to continue stretching, alow your lobes to heal withoutal damage being done. You dont want to end up with some nasty cat butt.I also heard emu oil helps em out a bit, so i ordered some so lets see how it goes.
As far as double flairs go avoid them, i had someone SHOVE one in my ear without asking and it tore my ear. So i'm allowing it time to heal as you should allow time as well. Double flairs in my opinion are for bigger sizes or for people who are going to stay small, but really for bigger sizes, because if you do manage to get it in, its going to heal around it and you wont be able to get it out. Now that's a nasty thought!
For the sea salt what i do is get a small cup, fill it up with warm water, a tea spoon of sea salt, mix it up and soak. Repeat this at least once a day twice would be better. I some times add a little more salt, keep in mind too much salt is bad for your lobes so dont go over doing it.
Here is a link to the emu oil post, http://forums.bodyartforms.com/forums/t/25531.aspx
Hope this helps you out a bit!