use search, there is alot of info on that in BAF

Jojoba oil.

 Downsizing, time, oil massages. Slow restretching and more downsizing. Sleeping with your plugs out when you do wear them. 

 the best info that i can offer is EMU OIL, it increases the blood flow and streghthens your skin. If you take a break from stretching for 2-3 months and just massage it into your ear a couple time a week it should help.

you can find it at most tattoo/ piercing shops, just ask for lobe oil.

you can also get it at BAF.

I have heard that vitamen E oil helps to.

PERRON360:

If you take a break from stretching for 2-3 months and just massage it into your ear a couple time a week it should help.

2-3 months is not ``taking a break`` - it`s not even waiting the minimum recommended time in between stretches.  

To the OP: I agree with the downsizing and massaging suggestions.

PERRON360:

you can find it at most tattoo/ piercing shops, just ask for lobe oil

I'll be honest, I'd be wary of asking for "lobe oil" without knowing what's in it...that's not a "standard term" in the piercing business and could be anything, since people put all kinds of stuff on their lobes (good and bad). Around here (Ohio) I haven't run across any piercing shop (good or questionable) that carries emu oil, but perhaps this is different where you're from. I would say your best bet is to buy it from BAF, since you can even get a tiny little bottle to try it out before committing to a larger size.

Also, I'd agree that waiting longer than 2-3 months to stretch would be needed to help rebuild some of the tissue. I'd wait as long as humanly possible to give your lobes the best chance and keep massaging with some kind of oil (emu, naked, vitamin E, etc). In fact, if the lobe is that thin, you may want to reconsider how big you want to go and maybe permanently downsize.

I second this post. Sometimes you can use all the oil you desire, but your ear lobes could just be plain thin. Some people's ears aren't fit to have larger stretches. I have a friend that's proof of this. He downsized, massaged and still ended up having thin ear lobes and a waste of time.