And it's amazing what I had to do to get there!
I made a post a while back about how I had planned on taping halfway there, then using my taper to get me the rest of the way. Well, around the first of this month, I wrapped a layer of PTFE around my 6g single flare glass eyelets. I oiled them really well with jojoba, and slid them back into my ears. Two days passed, and all was well. Then, I woke up one morning with one naked lobe. I see that the plug had fallen onto my pillow... and the tape was gone. I look in the mirror and see that my lobe has eaten the tape... it had shrunken rather tiny, and a wad of PTFE was wedged inside. After a quick massage, I pushed my eyelet back in, which forced the tape out. I un-taped the other plug, and decided to give up on the idea. My ears were pretty dried out after just a few days with tape anyway.
I then got on BAF with the intent of ordering one of those really nice IS tapers, instead of using my acrylic one that didn't look so gradual. However, I got a message from a friend [who was doing quite well at 3/4"] who said not to give up on the taper I already had. She told me to try to insert it gently, and if it didn't go through, then order a better one. I decided to follow her advice... after all, she spent three years working up to 3/4" and used mostly the basic acrylic tapers.
So just yesterday, I decided to stretch. I laid out my taper, my no-flare pyrex plugs, my jojoba, and some personal lube [I like to combine it with jojoba for optimal slippery-ness]. I gave my lobes a quick massage, and attempted to push the taper through the left one first. I felt that familiar slight sting, and looked into the mirror. I simply could not get it past the sharp jump to 4g. I took it out, and tried to see if the right one would cooperate more [my left ear is definitely the bitch one]. Same results. So I gave up, and put the 6g plugs back in.
This afternoon, I decided to give my ears a SSS, just in case the bad taper had irritated them. I then gave them an oil massage, and decided to hang around naked for a little while. I was in my room looking at the 4g plugs, and longing to wear them. Out of curiosity, I decided a dead stretch might work. I put a bit of lube on the plugs, and pushed them in. They went in rather smoothly, although not quite pain-free. I experienced a sharp pinch, but no bleeding and all looks great. They're a little bit sore, which I think was from messing with them yesterday. It's nothing that good aftercare can't take care of though.
This stretch has made me re-evaluate my goal size a little. I think I'd like to stay at 4g for a while; I have very tiny ears and the 4g plugs look just right for some reason. I'm definitely not stretching again for a while, if I ever do decide to stretch to a 2g.
I may post some pics tomorrow, if anyone wants to see!
lobes, four gauge. left tragus, sixteen gauge.
next up: navel, ten gauge.
wishlist: lobes, two gauge.
navel, six gauge.
rook-to-helix industrial.
christina.
random microdermals.
blood roses on my back/up and down my ribcage.