I'm posting some pics of my right lobe cause I'm making myself sick with worry. I feel like it might be to thin and that I need to downsize permanately. I've already downsized to 2g and then worked my way back up to 00g. I take my plugs out everynight and sometimes leave them out for over 24hrs. I've debated massaging again but not sure what to use since any kind of oils make my ears and neck break out.

What it comes down to is how do you know if your lobe is dangerously thin? When you can't see the bottom of your lobe when you got plugs in? When you lose feeling in the bottom of your lobe? Discoloration, etc.? I don't have any of those signs but I'm still worried. I really don't want to downsize again, I think I'd rather let my ears close up then continuing to downsize every few months. Am I just paranoid?

 Yes, I'm assuming they just weren't initially pierced at a good position. I'd suggest downsizing every so often to thicken them up, and scalpel if you plan on going larger. :3

Well I'm at my goal size of 00g so I don't know if scalpelling would be the right way to go. I just need to feel ok that if I leave them and not go bigger and continue leaving my plugs out at night and doing massages that they'll be ok.

if you downsize, massage, and take good care for a good while, you shouldn't have to downsize every couple of months.

 if this is for sure your goal size, i wouldnt worry. its not like in 10 years they will sag and become thinner...but i would definitely find the best oil or lube and then start massaging because that always helps and makes the lobes feel all pampered. 

they don't look thin, definitely poor placement

Extremely paranoid. :) 

 my lobes were peirced low, too.

they look alright. :] 

i tihnk jojoba oil doesn't clog pores. Did you already try it?  

I thought you said you were letting them close up. 

I thought you were done with stretching? 

and a little crazy...