i wear weights about once a week, just to change things up.
my ex can't wear plugs, whenever he does he gets a weak spot which has led to him having his lobes fixed like 3 times but he can wear weights all day everyday which he does now.
there are THOUSANDS of different kinds of weights, some are light some are very heavy, all different materials and sizes. just depends on what you like and what you feel comfortable wearing.
1.5" lobes, 2g conches (downsized to 4g now), 4g nostrils (stretched from 8g piercings)
and chances are i keliod more then you
