So I looked through other post, but i couln't find my question, so i figured i'd just ask, but..I have never had my ears peirced before and I want to start stretching them...i kinda have a goal of like an 8 or a 6, nothing too big. But i don't know exactly how to go about getting everything started, ya know? So like...how exactly would I do that? do i need to get the ears peirced fist and then how long until i can start stretching?