i dont want to start small and i want to big

my goal is from where i can start from and end at 1" 3/4

 I definitely wouldn't get your lobes punched. The biggest needles I've ever seen/heard of are 4g, and some piercers will pierce at 4g, and immediately stretch to 2g. If you have rather large natural lobes, you can get scalpelled to a much larger size initially. I've heard of some people getting scalpelled to 3/4" from nothing.

You can get your lobes punched, but the procedure depends upon a variety of factors (previous piercings, placement, thickness, scar tissue, etc). The size of punch and following taper will be highly dependent upon anatomy. Be sure to consult a highly qualified individual before considering a soft tissue punch as this is a permanent alteration.

The majority of piercers will pierce with needles up to ~ 4 gauge, although some may argue that a crescent shaped hole may take slightly longer to heal.

In either case, I can't stress enough the importance of doing your research and speaking with many professionals (and scoping out their healed work portfolio) before deciding which procedure is best for you. 

 if you plan on going to a large size, don't get punched.

At what point do you consider a hole a large size? I know of someone that had their lobes punched and tapered that's currently sitting at 3/4".

In many cases, a punch can actually redirect a hole and reduce the amount of strain in a particular area. This can aid in the avoidance those pesky "thin" spots, particularly as the stress on a lobe increases with size.

Also, I was under the impression that, while being able to help correct the above issues, small punching and tapering can help the lobes self-stretch after they've healed. And if you're trying to go to a larger size, that would be a good thing (up until your goal, that is). 

 I was just offering my opinion.  I personally would want as much tissue as I could get if I was planning on going as big as the OP said.  

I'm with Quinn..Punching is a bad idea iif you want to go big, as it removes tissue, and you're going to be needing lots of that as you go bigger. I think the better way to go is scalpelling. 

I have seen 2g needles. :) 

 how much does scalpeling cost and can you use a silicone eyelet when i first get it done or does it have to be done with stainless steel

 mine cost $65 with glass jewelry.

 No. Silicone (like acrylic and organics) is porous and therefor harbors bacteria. A scalpeling would have to be done with SF glass, titanium, or steel.

 and yet it has been done with silicone.