Is it possible to pierce your cartilidge in the two places, each place being where the industrial bar would go through. Then once the piercing heals up, you could stick a 14 gauge in each piercings (14 because its the size of the industrial bar) and then once the cartildge is fully adjusted to the 14, then you could put the industrial bar in through both piercings. Just so that it would be a lot less painful. What do you think?
10 Ear, 2 4G Lobes,1 Nose, 1 Naval, and 1 Tragus.